Editor, with permission.
by Marcel Tetrault
Comox Valley EchoFriday, May 07, 2010
On New Year's Eve doctors thought long-time Cumberland councillor Leslie Baird had just two weeks to live.
Eighteen weeks later she is not only still going strong but feeling better than she has since the beginning of December, when she first took ill.
Baird checked herself in to St. Joe's on Dec. 31 due to breathing difficulties.
"I knew something was wrong," said Baird. "They told me to phone my family and have them come and see me. I refused.
"At the time - I didn't know - but they gave me two weeks."
Baird has a rare and aggressive form of breast cancer known as inflammatory breast cancer.
She was "devastated," she said, when she got the initial diagnosis. But her positive attitude soon took over.
"It was like yeah OK, that's it, let's deal with it and move on," she said. "I'm not ready to go yet, I've got too much I want to do."
One week after that visit to St. Joe's Baird was in Victoria, 11 family members at her side, getting her first chemotherapy treatment.
That was a tough trip because her prognosis, she said, "was not good at all." She lost 40 pounds in one month and had so little energy she could not climb stairs.
But about two days later, after she recovered from the effects of chemotherapy, Baird felt better than she had in weeks.
She has now had four additional chemotherapy treatments with just one more, scheduled for May 18, still to come. Each treatment knocks her back for between two days and a week, but the tumour has shrunk from eight to nine inches in size down to just a tiny lump.
"I'm just extremely tired and nauseated (after a treatment)," said Baird. "I didn't even have enough energy to pick my head up off the pillow. To get up in the morning it took two hours.
"My husband was absolutely fantastic. He looked after me. He made me take my pills, he made me get up, he made me eat, he took me for rides even when I said I didn't want to go.
"I'd fall asleep on the couch and, (when I awoke), the whole room was full of people. They were just there and it was such a nice feeling. I think (the support) helps you a lot."
In June, Baird will embark on a two-year course of treatment with a different drug that has far milder side effects and is meant to keep the cancer at bay.
"You're never cured," said Baird, referring to the inflammatory type of breast cancer. "That's what they tell me anyway.
"But you never know. My thought is, miracles happen all the time."
One positive to already come from Baird's battle with cancer is that many of her friends and family members have gone in for mammograms and other tests.
Her older sister found out she also has breast cancer about two weeks ago. But the early diagnosis means she has a very good prognosis.
"She said she wouldn't have gone if she hadn't been at (the hospital) with me," said Baird. "I think it's really important to do that and it's unfortunate it takes something like this to happen.
"Early detection is really important."
Baird's attitude has also changed.
"It made me realize that things I worried about before aren't really that important," she said. "I don't worry anymore. I pick and choose ... what I'm going to do and what I'm not going to do.
"Don't argue with the little stuff."
To support Baird in her fight, at least two local politicians plan to shave their heads to raise money for cancer.
The 'Locks for Leslie' initiative was announced by Coun. Larry Jangula at a meeting of Comox Valley Regional District, where Baird is the director representing Cumberland.
Jangula said he and Courtenay Mayor Greg Phelps would set the pace by having their heads shaved in public at the Cumberland Empire Day celebrations on May 24.
"We want to show that we care about (Leslie) and people in a similar position," said Jangula. He added: "She's a real game fighter. She's got her chin up. She's got a positive attitude."
Baird said the funds raised from sponsoring the head shaves would go to either the Freemasons/Canadian Cancer Society transport program or the Vancouver Island Lodge, where people stay who travel to Victoria for cancer treatments.
"It came as a complete surprise to me," said Baird, of the fundraising drive. "It's a good feeling."
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